Uses two medicines. You take mifepristone first, which stops the pregnancy from growing. A day or two later you take misoprostol, which makes the uterus cramp and empty, inducing an early miscarriage. You pass the pregnancy at home, wherever you choose.
Is done at our office by a clinician. In the first trimester it’s an aspiration: the cervix is gently opened, and the pregnancy is removed with gentle suction, in about 10 minutes. In the second trimester it’s an induction and evacuation, which usually needs the cervix prepared beforehand. You can be awake with local numbing, in twilight sedation, or fully asleep.
Abortion pill | In-clinic procedure | |
|---|---|---|
How far along | Through 14 weeks and 6 days | Through 27 weeks and 6 days |
Where it happens | At home (or wherever you choose) | At our Virginia Beach office |
How long | Several hours to days of strong cramping and heavy bleeding, usually within a day of the second medicine; lighter bleeding for 1–2 weeks | About 10 minutes for a first-trimester procedure; longer, with cervical preparation, in the second trimester; light bleeding for a few days |
What you feel | Strong Cramps from period-like to strong; heavy bleeding with clots; often nausea, chills, or diarrhea from misoprostol | Awake: pain and cramping for 5-10 minutes · Twilight: drowsy, little memory · Asleep: nothing |
Effectiveness | About 95–98% through 10 weeks; 90-95% 11-14 weeks. | Almost 100% (99.9%) |
Who is with you | Anyone you choose, at home; our nurses are a call away | Our clinicians, and a friend or family member for much of the visit |
Pain. | Longest Pain. Hours to days. Very strong cramps. | Asleep is effectively painless during the procedure. Twilight patients don’t sense much. Awake patients experience intense pain and cramping, but only for 5-10 minutes. |
Certainty | Not guaranteed to work. Success rates 90-98% depending on gestation. | You leave knowing it’s complete |
Telehealth? | Yes, for women in Virginia | No – in person only |
The trade-offs: it takes longer, you manage the cramping and bleeding yourself, the experience is more intense the further along you are, and a small number of women need an in-person procedure because the pills didn’t work. Also, the process is more unpredictable. There is more woman-to-woman variation in the experience. And it is more disruptive to your life What Abortion Really Feels Like
Women who choose a procedure most often tell us they want:
The trade-offs: you must come in-person to our office; if you choose to be asleep or have twilight, you can’t eat beforehand and you need someone to drive you home; After 18 weeks you need a 2-day visit. How Long Is an Abortion Appointment?
A few questions usually settle it:
Past 14 weeks and 6 days, a procedure is the option. Close to that limit, a procedure avoids the more intense experience of the pill later in pregnancy.
At home, or done and finished at our office?
If you want to feel nothing and remember nothing, choose an asleep or twilight procedure. If you’d rather manage cramps at home, then choose the pills.
A procedure is one visit. The pills are a process, not a procedure, and they can take a few hours or a few days (or in some cases a few weeks). They are more unpredictable.
If money is a critical factor, then choose the pills because they are cheaper.
With the pill, have someone with you or nearby for the first several hours.
Unfortunately, since Roe vs Wade fell, more than 412 women have been arrested and charged with crimes related to pregnancy and abortion, largely in the US South (see https://www.pregnancyjusticeus.org/post-dobbs-pregnancy-criminalization/ ) And many of these women were arrested after their interaction with a healthcare system or the Emergency Department of a Hospital. A medical system that they should have been able to trust. And for women traveling to us from restricted or banned states like GA, NC, SC, FL, AL, TX, sometimes legal considerations must override what should be a purely medical decision. Many women from those states choose to undergo an abortion procedure, rather than pills, so that they can get the abortion “over-and-done-with” before returning to their home state with hostile laws and sometimes hostile police. Even worse, on top of the risk of arrest, there is also the risk of being denied needed medical care or even dying. Tragically, there are numerous reports of women from states such as NC, GA, FL, TX, who have died as a result of being denied medical care due to abortion bans/restrictions (see https://reproductivefreedomforall.org/resources/the-human-cost-of-abortion-bans/ ) We find this heart-breaking. The risk of death is even more frightening than the risk of arrest. And, as a result, we have seen an influx of women traveling to our office who can only be described as “fleeing” their home state merely to get what should be their right - safe, legal medical care. And for many of these women, they elect to undergo an abortion procedure, rather than pills, not just to prevent the risk of arrest, but even to avoid the risk being refused needed medical care in their home state.
There is no wrong choice between two safe options. Our counselors and clinicians will talk it through with you and tell you what’s medically right for you – and the choice is yours.
Neither affects your ability to get pregnant in the future for the great majority of women.
Don’t wait – call 757-540-1595 or book online now. Women in Virginia can also start a telehealth visit.
This page is educational and is not a substitute for individual medical advice.